The invention provides a high nickel anode material, which comprises a base body and a coating layer, wherein aluminum (Al), titanium (Ti), magnesium (Mg), zirconium (Zr), calcium (Ca), zinc (Zn), boron (B), fluorine (F), vanadium (V), strontium (Sr), barium (Ba), yttrium (Y), neodymium (Nd), caesium (Cs), tungsten (W), molybdenum (Mo), ruthenium (Ru), rubidium (Rb) or lanthanides are mingled on the surface of the base body, the coating layer is coated on the surface of the base body, and comprises one or more of the magnesium, the titanium, the zirconium, the fluorine, the boron, the aluminum and phosphate. The elements are mingled on the surface of the base body of the high nickel anode material, the mingled elements can stabilize a surface crystal structure of the base body, remit damage of washing liquid to a material surface structure of the base body, and enable capacity and cycle performance of a lithium ion battery which is prepared through the high nickel anode material to be better. Furthermore, the high nickel anode material is provided with the coating layer, and the coating layer enables the high nickel anode material to separate from an electrolyte part, and improves electrochemical stability and safety of the high nickel anode material. The invention further provides a method for preparing the high nickel anode material and a lithium ion battery.