The invention discloses a super-hydrophobic oleophylic material which comprises a matrix, a reinforcing body, a coupling agent and a nano coating attached to the surface of the matrix, the matrix material is one of a stainless steel mesh, foamed nickel, foamed copper or foamed titanium, the coupling agent is dopamine, and the nano coating on the surface is one or two of hexadecylamine and octadecylamine; and the reinforcing body is graphene. The invention also discloses a preparation method thereof. According to the design thought, a layer of reduced graphene oxide coats a metal wire mesh framework such as foamed nickel and the like, the graphene serving as the reinforcing body plays a role in improving the strength of the matrix material, graphene oxide with a small particle size is adopted for coating of the graphene, and after reduction, the sheet layer of the graphene is thin, so that the excellent performance of the graphene can be played. In addition, the graphene has hydrophobicity, the surface of the graphene is modified with nanoscale low-surface-energy substances, performance integration of the graphene and the low-surface-energy substances is achieved, and hydrophobicity, lipophilicity and use durability are improved.