The invention discloses aramid fiber slurry and a preparation method thereof, and a diaphragm based on the aramid fiber slurry; the preparation method of the aramid fiber slurry comprises the following steps of preparing a first solution and a second solution, mixing the first solution with dimethylacetamide, stirring to be uniform, adding water, stirring until uniform, adding isopropyl alcohol, stirring until the mixture is uniform, adding dimethyl carbonate, stirring until the mixture is uniform, adding the second solution, and uniformly stirring to obtain the aramid fiber slurry. The aramidfiber slurry contains alcohol, water and ester, and the three non-solvents (alcohol, water and ester) are creatively adjusted, enabling alcohol, water and ester to occupy the position of the aramid fiber slurry under the combined action of alcohol, water and ester; and after the aramid fiber is cured by pure water, the non-solvent is uniformly dissolved in water, so that the extraction effect isachieved, and uniform pore forming of the aramid fiber is realized.