The invention discloses a method for preparing a large-admixture-amount wet-milled phosphorus solid waste super-retarding cementing material. The method comprises the following steps: putting phosphorus slag and desulfurized fly ash into a wet-milling machine, and performing mixing and wet milling so as to obtain mixed slurry A; grinding caustic dross, ardealite and coal ash in a dry-milling machine so as to obtain a mixed powder material B; and mixing the mixed slurry A with the mixed powder material B so as to obtain a mixed material C, adding cement, a water reduction agent, a retarder, tailing sand and macadam into the mixed material C, and performing stirring for 4 minutes, so as to obtain super-retarding concrete. Wastes such as the phosphorus slag, desulfurized fly ash, caustic dross, ardealite, coal ash and tailings are adopted to prepare concrete, wastes are turned into wealth, and the amount of cement can be also reduced; due to a mixed wet-milling mode of the phosphorus slagand the desulfurized fly ash, phosphorus dissolution of the phosphorus slag can be promoted, the initial setting time and the final setting time of the concrete can be greatly prolonged, early-stagehydration heat can be reduced, cracks can be reduced, later strength can be ensured, and large-admixture-amount efficient application of the phosphorus slag can be achieved; and the prepared super-retarding concrete can be applied to large-size concrete, drilling bitten piles, and the like.