The invention relates to a preparation method of a double-layer high-temperature-resistant heat-insulating wave-absorbing composite material, which belongs to the technical field of wave-absorbing material preparation. In the present invention, aluminum trichloride, zirconium carbonate and other materials are first prepared to obtain ceramic fiber powder, then nano-titanium dioxide and coupling agent are added to deionized water for mixing, then ceramic fiber powder is added, and after ultrasonic dispersion, heated and stirred to obtain a slurry solution, the The slurry solution and water glass are mixed, poured, molded and sintered to obtain a matrix material, and the wave-absorbing coating prepared by epoxy resin is coated on the surface of the matrix, and after curing, a double-layer high-temperature-resistant heat-insulating wave-absorbing composite material can be obtained. It is a ceramic fiber material with a porous structure, not only has high resistivity, but also has low thermal conductivity and good high temperature resistance. After being combined with the outer coating, it can quickly absorb and attenuate electromagnetic waves, with high absorption efficiency, wide frequency, light weight, Excellent mechanical properties, the coating is firmly combined with the base layer through the coupling agent, and it is not easy to fall off.