The invention belongs to the field of ceramic wave-transmitting materials, and in particular relates to a nitride ceramic high-temperature wear-resistant coating and a preparation method thereof. It is made of material, grinding balls and organic binder solution; the material includes the following components: component A, feldspar, quartz and calcium carbonate; component A includes lithium carbonate, aluminum hydroxide and quartz powder. The coating has a good combination with the substrate, and can be precisely cold processed. The internal structure of the coating is uniform and dense without pores, the surface has no cracks, no water absorption, and the coating has high hardness. After coating, the dielectric constant of the composite material has basically no change compared with that before coating, and the dielectric loss has been reduced to a minimum of 9×10 ‑4 . The invention improves the moisture absorption of the porous silicon nitride, improves the ablation resistance and erosion resistance of the material, and enhances the environmental adaptability of the porous low-density nitride ceramics. The invention also provides a preparation method thereof, which has the advantages of scientific rationality, easy implementation, short production cycle and low investment cost.