The invention provides a preparation method for synthesizing a melamine high aluminum catalyst, and particularly relates to a preparation method of high aluminum-silica gel with the advantages of higher specific surface area, larger pore volume, higher strength and low wear rate. According to the preparation method disclosed by the invention, sodium metasilicate, sulfuric acid and pseudo boehmite are used as main production raw materials, wherein the sodium metasilicate and the sulfuric acid are gelatinized and then need to be subjected to aging and reaming, acid soaking and water washing, so that higher specific surface area, larger pore volume and larger pore diameter of the catalyst are guaranteed, and the activity of the catalyst is effectively improved; high-quality pseudo boehmite is added in beaten silica gel slurry, so that the content of activated aluminum oxide in the catalyst and the strength of the catalyst are effectively improved. By adopting the preparation method provided by the invention, the high-quality silica gel required by industry can be produced: the specific surface area is greater than or equal to 300 m<2>/g, the pore volume is 0.4 to 0.7 cm<3>/g, and the wear rate is smaller than or equal to 1.5 percent; the key problem of producing alumino silica gel with the high specific surface area, the high pore volume, the high strength and the low wear rate is solved; the preparation method has the advantages of simple steps, convenience in operation and high practicality.