The invention discloses a muddy water curing agent for preparing a plant-growing bag from engineering slurry, the plant-growing bag and a preparation method. The muddy water curing agent is prepared from the following raw materials: a copolymer, a cross-linking agent, acrylic acid, an initiator and a surface cross-linking agent, wherein the copolymer is polyvinyl alcohol, acrylamide, methacrylamide or acrylonitrile; the cross-linking agent is selected from one or more of polyethylene glycol diglycidyl ether, ethoxylated glycerol triacrylate and ethylene glycol dimethacrylate; mixing the copolymer, the cross-linking agent and the acrylic acid, and carrying out polymerization reaction; adding the initiator into the solution subjected to the polymerization reaction, heating and stirring to obtain hydrogel, and mincing the hydrogel to obtain gel particles; and spraying the surface cross-linking agent onto the surfaces of the gel particles, and drying to obtain the muddy water curing agent. The muddy water curing agent can effectively modify mud and other waste sludge and make the mud and other waste sludge into the plant-growing bag so that resources are saved, the environment is protected, the cost is low, and the transportation cost is saved.