The invention relates to a method for preparing a polyether modified HMDI waterborne polyurethane curing agent. The curing agent is mainly prepared from hydrogenated diphenyl-methane-diisocyanate H6MDI or H12MDI, polyether polyol, inert solvent and polymerization inhibitor. The polyether modified HMDI waterborne polyurethane curing agent does not contain aromatic hydrocarbon, glycol ether or alkylphenol, has the characteristics of environmental friendliness, good scratch resistance, good transparence, excellent chemical resistance, strong pollution resistance, good yellowing resistance and the like; and polyurethane paint prepared from a waterborne hydroxyl component has the characteristics of high hardness, high transparence, good film scratch resistance, good leveling property, high fullness, good solubility and the like, can be widely applied to waterborne wood lacquer, waterborne industrial paint, waterborne plastic paint and other various dual-component waterborne polyester paint, waterborne polyurethane paint, waterborne epoxy paint, waterborne alkyd paint, waterborne polyurethane glue and other specific curing agents.