The invention discloses a wear-resistant flame-retardant damping gasket material which is prepared from epoxidized natural rubber, chloroprene rubber, polyisoprene rubber, a phosphate-modified polyurethane elastomer, stearic acid, zinc oxide, an accelerator TT, an accelerator CZ, sulfur, N,N'-m-phenylenedimaleimide, dicumyl peroxide, opal, nano titanium dioxide, nano silicon aluminum tubes, a silane coupling agent, zinc borate, diphenyl phosphate, melamine, an anti-aging agent, an anti-aging aid, glycidyl methacrylate and diglycol dibenzoate. The wear-resistant flame-retardant damping gasket material has the advantages of favorable wear resistance, favorable flame-retardant effect, excellent weather resistance, high radial tensile strength, moderate hardness, favorable elasticity, long service life and low cost.