The invention relates to a preparation method of a high-temperature-resistant and wear-resistant brake pad, belonging to the technical field of brake pad preparation. In accordance with that invention, titanium pow, Carbon powder, aluminum powder and iron powder are mixed, A metal composite product is prepare by adding urea and absolute ethanol, oxidizing graphite powder, A modified mixture is prepared by reduction and modification, A metal composite product of that mix slurry, A high-temperature-resistant and wear-resistant brake pad is obtain by mixing that modify mixture and pressing the mixture into a mold, Volatilization of urea particles, A metal mixture is microscopically porou, in the pores of the metal mixture filled with the modified nano-graphene, making the microstructure of the metal mixture stronger, The impact resistance and mechanical strength of the brake pads are effectively improved, and the high temperature resistance and strength of the metal mixture can be greatlyimproved by the introduction of titanium, and the high temperature resistance of the metal mixture can be further improved by the modified graphene, and the carboxyl and ester groups in tung oil canimprove the mechanical strength and wear resistance of the brake pads, so that the brake pads have a broad application prospect.