The invention discloses a soil solidifying agent, and a preparation method and a use method thereof. The soil solidifying agent is prepared from, by weight, 0.4 parts of calcium lignin sulfonate, 0.9 parts of sodium polycarboxylate, 1.7 parts of lithium hydroxide, liquid aluminum dihydrogen phosphate, illegally recycled waste cooking oil, sulfamic acid and distilled water, the pH value of the soil solidifying agent is 5-9, a weight ratio of the illegally recycled waste cooking oil to the liquid aluminum dihydrogen phosphate is 1.5:1, and the use amount of sulfamic acid is 1 / 2 of the total weight of the illegally recycled waste cooking oil and the liquid aluminum dihydrogen phosphate. The preparation method of the soil solidifying agent comprises the following steps: preparing an alkaline neutralization solution, preparing acidic fatty alcohol sulfide, mixing the alkaline neutralization solution with the acidic fatty alcohol sulfide, layering and extracting, and filtering to prepare the finished soil solidifying agent. The soil solidifying agent provided by the invention is not strong acidic or alkaline, and has the advantages of high safety, no pollution to environment, strong compression resistance, high water stability, high freeze stability and realization of waste utilization of the illegally recycled waste cooking oil; and the preparation method of the soil solidifying agent has the advantages of low energy consumption, no pollutants, safety and environmental protection.